“Enough Blame To Go Around”


I have just come from another one of “those” meetings. While I typically write this blog about national issues and trends, today’s message is close to home and deeply personal. Last night in my city, a member of my community—a young Black man was shot and killed by law enforcement. We do not have all of the facts yet, but we do know that an unarmed 19-year-old Black child is dead. As I sat in the packed meeting in a local church I watched the boy’s mother and grandmother sit in stunned silence. I listened to the sobs of the people around me. I wondered as the White news media kept their cameras rolling. The emotions in that room ran from heartbreak to sadness to anger to bitterness. All of those emotions are legitimate and expected however we have to go beyond feeling to doing if we have any chance of surviving.
Here in “idyllic” Madison, Wisconsin we are regularly told we have one of the most “livable” cities in the US…but livable for who? It was apparently not livable for Tony Terrell Robinson (that’s his name…add it to your list with Trayvon Martin, Mike Brown, Jr., Eric Garner, Tamir Rice, Rekia Boyd, and countless others). Tony’s body lies in the morgue with 5 bullets in his chest and we are in a meeting pointing fingers. That is some what expected but I need to say that in this instance there is enough blame to go around:
Law Enforcement – The most obvious culprit in this boy’s death is the Police Department (or at least the officer who pulled the trigger). What kept the officer from using something other than a gun to subdue a young man s/he was pursuing? We do know that African Americans are more likely to be stopped and questioned by the police with no probably cause. We do know that in a city with a 7% African American population the county jail has a 44% Black inmate population. I do know that despite having had 2 African American police chiefs, Black drivers are the most often pulled over. I also know that Black people, especially Black children are quickly and regularly criminalized.

Schools – So many of the problems that Black Madison residents experience either start or are exacerbated by schools. Our suspension and expulsion rates are ridiculously high. Our drop out and failure rates are criminal. We are less likely to access honors and AP classes. The schools often are the place where our children have their first encounter with law enforcement because teachers and administrators are quick to call the police when they do not know what to do with our children. Several years ago a group of us proposed a charter school for Black and Brown boys. We were criticized for not including girls so we went back to the drawing board and agreed to include girls. But, when the rubber met the road the “liberal” folks of livable Madison would not approve the school. Meanwhile, they have done NOTHING to address the academic and social disparities our children continue to experience.

Churches – Yep, I’m going there! We have more than 20 African American congregations in this city of less than 20,000 Black people. But those 20+ congregations are NOT pulling in the same direction. They are not addressing the real needs of our children. Our churches are so concerned with condemnation that there is little edification. As Michael Eric Dyson says, “Maybe if we lifted their dreams, they’d lift their pants!” The Black church is so preoccupied with what young people are wearing, what music they listen to, and their sexuality that we cannot help them with the REAL issues of their lives—forming their identities, completing school, finding jobs, becoming successful adults.

Community—Yep, again! We have as much culpability as anyone else. We have stopped engaging our children. We avoid them as much as White people do. We are afraid of them and have allowed them to run rampant without boundaries or responsibilities. This is not love; it is license! Until we are ready to stand in the gap for ALL of our children, what happened to Tony Terrell Robinson is going to happen again…and again…and again.

I am at a point in this process where I don’t care if people are angry, belligerent, and beside themselves with rage. I just want people to own the part of the problem that belongs to them and start fixing it. I don’t want to go to another meeting, rally, sit-in, or protest. I want to act on behalf of our kids and I am willing to work with ANYONE who wants to do the same thing!

If you want to help Tony Terrell Robinson’s family afford a funeral for their son please go to www.gofundme.com/tonyterrell

Stay Black & Smart!

9 thoughts on ““Enough Blame To Go Around”

  1. I just wanted to say that this article says it all and says it very well. Everyone needs to open there eyes and help each other. It shouldn’t matter your race or color. We live in America, land of the free. Innocent until proven guilty. What has happened to our societies morals?


  2. All I can say is” Amen and Hallelujah!” Real talk. Thank you, Dr. GLB! We CAN fix this, if we want to and have the courage and audacity to follow through.

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  3. Being close to the family, I am without words and still in disbelief even as I keep reading and hearing whats going on! Because of a condition I have suffered from for most of my life I don’t watch the news ir read the papers, my heart can’t take all the pain in the world every day! I would never stop crying! Know that my son came by early yesterday morning to tell me, and I still am in shock yet again! I cried for weeks after each of the other deaths at the hands of the police! These young black men are our future, what are we going to do about this? It’s time to go Martin Luther King Jr on this nation! My friend always say that the kkk traded in their white hoods for judge robes and police uniforms! Thats what this post just said, look at the numbers! Nothing had really changed they are still getting away with it. They are focused on our young men!

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  4. A government funded independent school would be great. If, however, that is not possible, there is always a private school; either funded by parents or (even partially) by supporting businesses and community leaders. Homeschooling and creating a homeschooling group/association is another great option. This is a rapidly growing trend, for many reasons. The biggest reason is that parents simply want a better atmosphere for their children to learn and grow in. There is a lot of material on the subject. Research and see if it would help create the change you are looking for. Not just curriculum, but research blogs and YouTube videos. See what other parents and groups are doing. Group activities, field trips, sports, chess clubs, drama, music . . . See college admissions for homeschoolers. You don’t need to rely on a system that isn’t working for you. There is another option. It is your choice. And yes, After trying private and public schools, I now homeschool my two boys.


  5. Refreshingly intelligent commentary, thank you! No one will get off easy in this thing, certainly not the family and friends, and not the officer either. I am so distressed to see how fast the battle lines were drawn, the positions pre-prepared for everyone to just assume, the opinions instantly sorting into the most extreme poles possible. No one knows the facts yet, but everyone feels the need to have an opinion RIGHT NOW. Too bad for the truth.

    Keep writing, you are spot-on.


  6. Nobody assumes, nobody needs to lie. The facts are the facts and the truth is the truth. The facts are that there was no need for the policeman to kill the young man period How can an experienced veteran officer not know how to difuse or settle the situation by using police tactics. Why would he break in without no back-up? What would have happened to him if the victim did have a gun? My opionion is that the póliceman made a lot of mistakes and a bad choice. Even when the investigation finds out the exact situation, the truth will be twisted.


  7. Thank you for your article. It does a great job of outlining where the problems exist, however, I have yet to hear of any solutions to the racial issues plaguing Wisconsin – whether it be from leaders on the school board, city officials, the judicial system, community organizers/leaders, etc. The issues facing Wisconsin are deep rooted, and are going to require a lot of collaboration across State/City Governments, private organizations, and communities, however, I have not heard of any suggestions for solutions which is worrisome – especially now. To be faced with the fact that in addition to Wisconsin being the worst state in the US for black opportunity, now Madison is on the map as being one of our Nation’s cities to have an unwarranted black-murder-by-police, is all very concerning. I think most of us can agree to these concerns, however, I am not hearing of any proposed solutions. Hopefully you have a network of people that can organize a committee with key leaders (school board, police chiefs, city council, state senates, community non profit leaders, etc) to have ongoing discussions on the race perils affecting our State and our communities and thereby outline some key strategies and action plans to start making progress.


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